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And that’s an example of most of the arguments brought by people against a life of liberty, that because they find it hard to imagine how it’d look like so that means it must not exist.

Back in 1999 before India had privatized telecom industry, people asked the same questions, what will we do if we have 20 different phone companies, how would I call my neighbor, what if I have phone number from company A and you have form company B, how will we call each other? Do I need to keep phones from Company A and B both in order for people of the both the networks able to call me? How will people even remember that many phone numbers? What if I move from one state to the other where my previous company A does not exist, will my number be lost? How will people contact me now? It will be choas everywhere.

A good example would be traffic. Imagine traffic conditions if we did not have any police. Would individual human nature and thinking produce the same result.

I guess some ladies have already commented how they are different emotionally.

Even logically speaking I would argue that they are different. The difference is in the motivation — which presents itself in the way things will be handled after “the breakup” or “your time is over”.

Although you may exchange tangible gifts in both the cases. In the case of a girlfriend, your gf may hold on to her feelings (of love or hatered), but will most likely return or destroy your gifts. In the case of a prostitute, (assuming that they are professional) they would probably destroy the emotions — while holding on to your “gifts”.

Means u agree that pleasure is not just sexual. So GFs aren’t just meant for having SEX. And think again when do u get pleasure other then having sex with your GF or BF…

“That is so harsh on girl friend, why are you so anti-human anti-woman? Why should your girl friend share your crimes your faults your brainless activities?”

I said good and bad times. why just consider BAD times.
Also you called me as Anti Human and Anti Woman. Let us see who is Anti Human and Anti Woman.  Just tell me How many girls want to become Prostitute by themselves.
If you give them some other Job instead of providing them an easy way of making money(i.e. Prostitution) , i think they wont choose Prostitution.

“She is responsible for her life her acts, and you are responsible for yours. Nobody is going to imprison a woman just because her husband is a rapist and killer accused of seven murders.”
Ha ha ha this was one of the idiotic thing that i have ever heard. I must say u have never loved anyone and never loved by anyone. If u do then u you wouldn’t have compared LOVE with the above lines you Quoted. A Love doesn’t ask anyone to live ALONE. When it comes to love the TWO person become ONE.

“Why do you get pleasure while having Sex…???”
Think Broad, think Wide… u said its a ‘biochemical urge’. Well its just as part of it. In how many other Bio-Chemical urges you get more pleasure then SEX…??? There have been lot of research been done on this Topic. Go through the research papers before posting your Idiotic comments

Why do you get pleasure while having Sex…???

Ok that is the silliest thing one may ask. And to answer that would be further silly. Anyways, let me give you a hint. Ever heard of biochemical urges?

Girl friend, or boyrfriend for me, is surely only a pleasurable activity. If i do not feel pleasure with being a boy why the hell i will be with him?
And that pleasure obviously includes sexual pleasure too and that means, pleasure is not only sexual.

In reality a girl friend is a partner which shares all moments of your life whether its Happy or Sad. Gives you company whether you are Miilionaire or a Beggar.

That is so harsh on girl friend, why are you so anti-human anti-woman?
Why should your girl friend share your crimes your faults your brainless activities?
She is responsible for her life her acts, and you are responsible for yours.

Nobody is going to imprison a woman just because her husband is a rapist and killer accused of seven murders.

Think upon this Q. i will putup my answer soon.

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unfortunately thats all i can do to cover up for my folly … so please bear with me … but i really enjoyed reading your views on Hypocrisy Of Anti-Reservation Activists … keep writing and  enlightening ppl !

until next time ….

to all those going ga ga over love …  i know not what love is.  humans like all other species are born to multiply , watever we do is supposed to be directed to our getting some more sex. intellect arouses my sexuality , thats why i think and write, cos my conscience believes that that among other things will increase my sex appeal. and love is maybe just another excuse … as paulo coelho describes ….. its the ability to give 11 minutes of pleasure.

and a nation is not homogeneous …. niether is it a haven like the internet

hey diva .. i’ll come back for more !

and regarding your point the indian mentality, i couldnt agree more on it.been there done that, but still when it comes to admitting in  open everybody tries to hide himself under a mask. prostitution is a reality, the more we tend to deny it the more problematic it will become. Infact regading the mentality point  i will tell you a short story, i just came back from 2 months of internship for a MNC in some other country. it boasted of a flat structure in company. as a matter of fact it was, you can bang into your senior office and talk to him straightaway, but i am sorry to admit it was not quite the same for indian co-workers, they *cough* *cough* had a desire to make themselves feel important and wanted me to actually send a meeting request before  even if they were free…guess it is something to do with grooming(it was not an exception with indian colleagues rather a generality)….

and finally, a request i would like to make, rather than referring to them as prostitutes i would prefer if you use the word CSW(Commercial sex worker) because the former sounds too degrading and is more of an opinion forming word when we dont have any idea why they came to this profession. CSW may not be legally correct term to use but i would still prefer it..

Looks like you knowledge about countries is limited! For Christ’s sake, India IS NOT another Saudi Arabia!!

Sex with people of same sex can land you in jail for 10 years.
Oral sex in India will also land you in jail for 10 years(with a person of either sex)
Anal sex too will land you in jail for 10 years
Read Article 377 of Indian Penal Code
 http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Section_377_of_the_Indian_Penal_Code

So tell me mr Hunter, how did you feel when you found out that India is actually not very different from Saudi?

Looks like your knowledge about India is Nill.

Do you want me to mention the cases of Rohtak where a married couple was forced to depart and leave there only child alone under Panchayat’s care, just because the parents were of same gotra?

or do you want me mention the case opf Rizwan murder in Kolkatta where Rizwan was killed just because he was 8in affair with a Hindu girl?

Or do you want me to mention why movies like “fire, and Water were banned and opposed violently?

or do you want me to mention case of bhopal, where not only a girl (who decided to love and marry a muslim) but every other hindu girl were tried to be tortured just because of her love with a borne muslim chosen atheist guy?

Get brains and stop using that fake word “Christ”.

Looks like you knowledge about countries is limited! For Christ’s sake, India IS NOT another Saudi Arabia!!

if we go with this logic then people will be having multiple *** partners..  is it ok?
Then what can be difference between us and animals?

Isn’t it a very weak argument for anything “If we do ___ what will be the difference between us and animals?”

Buddy we became different from animals the first time thousands of years ago when we first used tool. No animal has brains to use tools. Is there?>

Unfortunately we haven’t have stopped having sex like animals yet. And funny thing this animal-human argument is only heard in Indian culture, nowhere else.
We are animals, just in a more sophisticated manner. We can form groups, talk, think about our existence, cry, laugh, enjoy pain, pleasure, invent, discover, among the other things we do different from animals.

Mere act of having multiple partners cannot be termed as animalistic behavior because it cannot be specifically attributed to animals. We have an act of being married to someone, it does not stops you from talking to other people, it does not stops you from living with other people(you can be living with a room mate in other city), but it stops you from having sex with other people. The question is why only sex?

In fact here is a bigger more important question, if you are suppose to be married to a person you love, and you feel like having sex with another person, but still love your spouse, does that mean the marriage is null from now on? It happens more than you think. OR, if you are married to a person, and you now love someone else, what are you suppose to do? Forcing you to be still married would be slavery. If you are suppose to divorce and remarry, then what is the point of Marriage at the first place, why not call it simply “love”.

To love is selfish.

Let us discuss the old movie Satyam Shivam Sundaram of Jeenat Aman and Shashi Kapoor.

Jeenat Aman’s face gets a burnt and she becomes ugly. What does the movie depicts?

Does that movie say that love is selfless and one should not love a person for his/her qualities but should love him/her just because he is a person?

No. The moral of movie was different. The movie says that irrespective of her face being burnt, irrespective of being ugly on skin and facial counts and standards, Jeenat Aman proves to be irresistibly attractive and beautiful for Shashi Kapoor because of her excellent singing voice and skills. Because of her singing abilities and excellently beautiful voice, she wins heart of Shashi Kapoor, and irrespective of all illusionary ideas of Shashi Kapoor about facial beauty, the inner beauty of Jeenat Aman, her characteristic voice makes her worthy enough to be loved and respected.

That is, you cannot judge the worth of a person on behalf of his/her facial beauty and skin colour. You need to understand his/her inner and inalienable characteristics including good behaviour honesty, bravery, loyalty etc, whatever you look for, if you get it in a person, you obviously fell in love with him/her. That is why we say beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder.

Now, every person has some quality or other which we may love. Hence it is said that we should love all and each other. Not because it is altruistic nature, but because it is very selfish nature. We should love each other because everyone has got some or other worthy quality/qualities, and those qualities should be respected and admired.

But then again, every person has got some quality/qualities which we may not like/love and actually we may hate.

Thus, it makes it an overall value aided relation. We tend to love the person with whom we feel great and enthusiast.

Just like the case of the movie “Tare Zameen Par”. Ishaan meets many teachers and people. But he avoids them; he actually hates them and finds them repulsive. While on other hand, Amir Khan (Nikumbh) wins Ishaan’s heart, and trust, and Ishaan starts loving him, respecting him, which improves the self-confidence of Ishaan and he becomes excellent.

Same is case with the recent movie Sarkar Raj you saw some days ago.

Aishwarya Rai finds Hasan Qazi as repulsive and wrong, hence she rejects to work with him, while she finds values and ethics of Abhishek Bachchan worthy enough. She finds herself safe, secured and respected with Abhishek; hence she chooses to work with him.

In fact, even Bollywood movies tell the truth in best way possible. It is just our brainwashed view that we do not realize the hidden truth that all are selfishly motivated.